Title: Nuclear vs. Extended Family: Into the Urbanite

As the dinner conversation continued, we found ourselves engrossed in various topics, from travel experiences to societal changes. The mention of Rwanda had piqued our interest, and Eric enthusiastically shared his recent trip to the country. We listened attentively as he described the country's resilience and the beauty of Akagera National Park.

While Eric was recounting his adventures, a woman named Naomi approached our table, and to our surprise, she and Sally greeted each other warmly. They seemed to know each other, which sparked curiosity among the rest of us. Naomi introduced her companion, Chris, whom she referred to as her boyfriend. However, it was hard to overlook the fact that he appeared somewhat uncomfortable, clutching onto what seemed like women’s clutch bag.

The encounter with Naomi and Chris made me ponder the dynamics of relationships in modern society. It seemed that traditional gender roles and expectations were evolving and the lines between what was considered "masculine" and "feminine" were blurring. Toxic masculinity, once glorified in the past, was now giving way to more progressive attitudes.

As the evening wore on, our lively discussion shifted to the topic of family dynamics, particularly the contrast between nuclear and extended families. Alex, the more introverted one in our group, opened up about his close-knit relationship with his extended family. He shared fond memories of family gatherings, bonding with cousins, and the support system they provided during challenging times.
Sally, being the outspoken one, expressed her preference for a nuclear family setup. She appreciated the freedom and independence that came with it, especially in an urban setting where individual responsibilities and career aspirations took precedence.

Meanwhile, I found myself reflecting on my own family experiences. Growing up in a nuclear family, I valued the privacy and autonomy it provided, but I also yearned for the sense of community and emotional support that extended families often offer.
Our individual perspectives on family were diverse, but we all agreed that both nuclear and extended families had their merits and drawbacks. It was a matter of personal choice and circumstance as to which family structure one would prioritize.

As the night ended, we said our goodbyes and parted ways. Reflecting on the day's events, I could not help but appreciate the richness of human relationships and how they shape our lives in unique ways.
In the next instalment, we will delve deeper into the lives of these urbanites and explore how their family choices influences their daily lives and future aspirations.